Today we bring you the third story in our Week of Citizening.
If you’re just tuning in, you can catch:
And yesterday’s story on radical democracy in the workplace
🛑 Today’s focus: working through division and polarization
Check out today’s story in this Instagram Reel. If you’d rather skip the Zuckerverse, here’s the LinkedIn version. And it’s worth seeing how Jon Alexander framed it on his LinkedIn because he quotes Brian Eno!
This is the story of Steph and Lance — a conservative and a liberal, neighbors in South Central Pennsylvania, and members of the same school board.
They were expected to toe their respective party lines. They chose relationship instead.
With the support of Urban Rural Action, they refused to play the polarization game. They leaned into active listening. They challenged assumptions. They did the hard work of staying in community — for the kids in their district.
Because when people invest in relationships, the “us vs. them” story begins to crack. And a better one takes root. This is what it looks like to citizen:
Listen deeply
Speak honestly
Resist the pull to polarize
Build something different — together
💬 Seen something like this in your community?
Have you witnessed unlikely allies finding common ground to move things forward?
Visit stories.howtocitizen.com, join our list, and let us know you have a story to share. You can also comment on this post, reply or tag us on IG/LinkedIn. These stories are everywhere — and we need them more than ever.
🎥 Video produced by Anne Gutteridge. This story series is a collaborative effort of Shira Abramowitz, Jon Alexander, Elizabeth Stewart, and Baratunde Thurston.
Let’s citizen!
GOOD FOR YOU❣️ I truly appreciate your leadership in focusing on relationships rather than rancor. Thank you!
This is such an uplifting story, Baratunde. Neighbors taking time to listen and lean into curiosity.
Makes me wonder, what would it take for more neighbors to be neighborly?
And when people think about being a good neighbor, how do different people define it?